Un-Talk ™ therapist Phil DeLuca
When you’re booking your first session with a therapist you probably don’t expect he’ll ask you to bring a pair of sunglasses. Or build a domino tower. Unless of course, that therapist is Phil DeLuca, the UnTalk TM therapist.
Why UnTalk™ ?
If you’ve tried traditional relationship therapy you probably remember being asked to sit on a pricey, comfortable couch and follow your impulse to “talk out” all that anger, frustration and irritation with your partner, spouse, child or parent.
Phil DeLuca wants you to stop talking for a while.
That advice may sound counterintuitive, but it’s coming from a man who has saved thousands of relationships from what he calls the “Dead Zone,” that post-prickly, numbed-out point in a relationship when you simply stop caring about your loved one.
That advice is coming from a counselor who studied and employed traditional talk therapy in his own relationships 30 years ago. After filling his wall with degrees, however, Phil started to rebel and develop this revolutionary holistic approach to communication. With Phil, expect the unexpected – both in your session and in your results.
Climbing out of “The Dead Zone” together
The relationship Dead Zone is a dangerous place. It needs to be navigated wisely and gingerly. Before you decide on a therapist who’ll escort you and your loved one out of your Dead Zone Phil wants you to know that 3 out of 4 marriages end after traditional talk therapy.
That’s because expressing yourself while in the wrong state of mind can actually cause you to slide deeper into the Dead Zone. But if you understand the workings of your brain chemistry before you begin the climb, your chances of escaping the Dead Zone improve exponentially.
Love Science™: not a class you want to ditch
If you want to build a house that will withstand a tornado you need quality tools and a solid construction plan.
Love Science ™ is your toolbox; UnTherapy ™ the construction plan for building a robust, resilient relationship that can withstand emotional climate change.
He won’t make you take notes, but expect Phil to teach you:
- How your angry blow ups are incited by your brain chemistry
- How to stop your partner from perpetuating your anger
- When avoiding conflict is desirable
- What healthy communication looks like and how it makes you feel
- How your health is directly related to the health of your relationship
Is it safe to trust a rebel?
Phil has been his own guinea pig. It’s only after employing UnTherapy ™ tactics to save his own relationships from The Dead Zone that he began to apply it to the thousands of clients who describe their success.